BEHAVIOR INCENTIVE PLAN
The Reward system works as positive reinforcement.
When kids perform well at school, in any competition, they receive a
trophy or a certificate of recognition from teachers in front of everyone. This
encourages them to work more hard in that field.
Similarly, if a child does something wrong, like being caught cheating
or hitting someone, or bullying, then he/she is punished. Negative
reinforcement is given so that children do not repeat the same mistake in the
future.
Reinforcements according to the behavior of the child are important.
If a child is behaving well then positive reinforcement in form of
rewards is a way to encourage them to continue good behavior.
Stressing on positive behavior helps to build self-esteem in children.
It is very important to keep in mind what rewards are you giving. It
should not be expensive. It is important to reward kids in the right way.
Understand the difference between a reward and a bribe. The reward is
given by parents for desired behavior, when children follow rules or when they
show improved behavior. The Reward system is set by parents, not the child.
Types of rewards that can be given:
- Social
     reward
This includes giving your child your time and attention. A hug or a kiss
or praising the child. Playing games, telling a story, and going for a drive
can be also used as a reward. 
All of these rewards require a small amount of time and attention but
help to keep up the desired behavior.
2.      Symbolic reward
These rewards include stickers or pennies in a jar, which a child can
earn and he can/or she can buy a reward later. Praising the child every time
whenever you give a sticker or a penny to encourage positive behavior.
3.      Tangible reward
Tangible rewards include treats or toys. Tangible rewards should be
combined with social rewards. It should be used when we teach our kids
something new and difficult.
It is important to understand that many small rewards are better than
one big reward. The child will be more regular with positive behavior when
given a small reward every time. This will build a habit of good behavior in
them and small rewards are not even addictive.
Things to be kept in mind before making a reward system for a child at
home are:
Use simple wording 
With small kids, we need to speak with easy-to-understand terms. Instead
of using terms like reward or incentive or positive reinforcements, use
gratitude terms like, ‘thank you, please, great work, I am proud of you.’ This
will be easy for a child to understand and retain.
Track multiple behaviors
According to the age of the child, parents can implement more items in
the reward system. For example, giving extra points when a child puts dishes in
the sink after having a meal, making his/her own bed or helping with laundry,
not showing unnecessary anger, and being nice to siblings.
Get your kids involved. 
Talk to your child about the reward system and ask their point of view
about it. Ask them what rewards will motivate him/her. for example, your child
might not care about getting a new book if he/she already has shelves full of
unread ones, but may want to go out for a drive to the new ice cream shop!
Reward your toddler or preschooler right away. 
To eliminate confusion, the reward should be given immediately after the
desired behavior occurs, otherwise, your kid might forget what they’re being
rewarded for. 
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